Charlie Knox
26, m, resident of spa, northern ireland, a thinker, who tries to be real, enjoys the company of nala(left), indebted to jesus for his grace and instruction in life and whose, amongst other things, studying sports science at UUJ. enjoy rugby a whole lot!


Wednesday, November 14, 2007  

Honesty or self righteousness?
A message in two cartoons (powerful art form!).




















from Naked Pastor.











from ASBO Jesus.

posted by charlie | 10:37 PM |


Thursday, November 08, 2007  

Some loose chat on love/relationships/community

Got a healthy reminder about love/relationships/community last night after reading an article by alan knox on next wave (exerpt below), followed by a chat with a few friends.

'There is a misconception that community is built around uniformity: people who believe alike, act alike, respond alike, desire alike, etc. However, uniformity will not create the type of community in which God calls us to live. This is evident in the constant exhortation for believers to bear with one another, forgive one another, have patience with one another, and consider others as more important than themselves. Thus, the authors of Scripture recognize that there would be relational frictions between believers.' more.

It's been on my mind recently that loving relationships do not exist because of an absence of relational friction but rather in how we deal with relational friction. When we do life together in some form(whether it be publicly, socially, personally, intimately) its inevitable that occasionally (or often!) we will rub other people up the wrong way or that they will do the same to us.

The challenge is in how we respond. I remember a phrase by Nouwen which said that 'Confession and forgiveness are the concrete ways that we love one another.' In other words, real love involving human beings broken and error-full like you and me will inevitably require us to say sorry when we balls up (ie. quite frequently!) or to forgive 'as we have been forgiven' when others are in the red.

I've also been thinking about the the importance of communication. So often needless friction is built on perception rather than reality (ie. thinking someone is thinking/doing something that they're not!). I remember reading about the Cuban Missile Crisis during the cold war. The world was so nearly thrown into nuclear war based on nothing more than perception, with each side suspecting the other of getting ready for action and then gearing themselves up appropriately when in reality neither wanted any action.

I suppose in line with communication is confronting inappropriate behaviour gracefully. Sometimes people don't realise they're rubbing you up the wrong way. Sometimes the ball needs to be put in their court.

Finally i've been thinking about when it's wise to pull away in relationships. This is a hard one. sometimes i think it's probably better to stay clear of certain people or at least put more distance between ourselves and them and yet jesus teaching seems to put some limits on our 'walking away', not least when we were encouraged to love our enemies.

So help us God.

posted by charlie | 11:04 AM |


Thursday, November 01, 2007  

Newcastle turning a corner?

Many of you will know that for some time now I've not been a huge fan of Newcastle. Surrounded by immense beauty on all sides with the Mournes, Murlough and Tollymore all in very close proximity it's often perplexed me how the the town itself can be such a delapidated and dirty hole. Usually my only reasons for choosing to go there were either to get to the Mournes or occasionally to visit Cafe Creme which does in my opinion one of the best breakfasts in the area! Sunday nights in particular were always a definite no no!!

However, much to my surprise experiences in the town last night would lead me to believe that the town may be turning a corner. Just after tea time Melissa and I got wind of news that there was a fireworks display on in the seaside town and due to the lack of ducking for apples at home we thought we would take the trip up the road to get into the festive spirit. I have to admit my expectations weren't that high but boy was I wrong!

The fireworks were amazing, as good as i've ever seen! They set them up on the beach with thousands of people lining the length of the new promenade and went on constantly for twenty minutes or so. At many points throughout the display i thought we were seeing the Grande Finale because the fireworks were so good but when the end did come they really did finish in style.

Fireworks aside though, there was a fantastic atmosphere about the town. I was particuarly impressed with the new promenade, it's fine finishing and tasteful lighting played host to the many dressed up revellers with pride and made me feel like i was on holiday! I think all the work that they have done and the quality of the event last night gave me some hope that Newcastle is emerging from it's cheap and dingy past towards the type of tourist friendly place it so has the potential to be. Here's hoping! Well done DDC!

posted by charlie | 10:19 AM |
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